Generally, people prepare themselves mentally and financially for children and make that decision to have a child. The responsibility of having a child isn't necessarily a negative one unless you or someone else makes it one.
It's a negative one if it's 100% something that doesn't interest you in the slightest and is something you don't want to do at all
I don't like babies at all, I don't find kids cute, nor do I even like the thought of parenting one. It's something I don't want in my life, and is something I dread the thought of, which is why I plan on getting a vasectomy
Kids are a choice, and I'm making the choice of not having them