There's a difference between gender and gender identity. Whether you have a snake or not shouldn't dictate (richardtate lol) how you act or how you feel; whether you have a snake or not should dictate how you urinate. I feel more comfortable as a female, and if my life allowed it, I would refer to myself as female full time. However, since social norms interfere, I'm forced to keep that to myself and my own little world. I cannot truly change my gender, but I can change my gender identity.
However, I don't tolerate other people pushing that fact on everyone else. If I meet a bearded man who is 6' 5" with steroid muscles tomorrow and he asks me to call him, "she," then I happily will. If he told me I have to because it's his choice and if I don't I'm a narrow-minded starfish I'm going to tell his manly ass to go forget itself. It's people like this bitch who say, "die cis scum," that make me feel ashamed of calling myself transgender.