im getting the feeling that phantos considers loveual relations and reaching bases the core part of a relationship when the reality is the relationship is about how you two work together in good times and bad
yes, its part of many peoples relationships, but not everyone has that, and often the healthiest relationships have that come after developing a real bond with your s/o because of all the drama and awkwardness and stuff that comes with love.
its why i dont get the concept of friendzoning: why would you not consider someone you know extremely well? if you’re “friendzoned” it just means you’re not the right person for them, from their perspective.