The way I see it, God is one of three possibilities.
To define each of these, omnipotent - all powerful, omniscient - all knowing, loving/apathetic - caring/uncaring
1. Omnipotent, omniscient, uncaring - here god just doesn't care, he allows evil to occur just because
2. not omnipotent, omniscient, caring - here god can't stop everything, he has the will to but he just doesn't have the power to. (therefore not a god).
3. omnipotent, not omniscient, caring - here god can stop everything, and wants to, but he doesn't know about everything going on. this would be an explanation for miracles. miracles only occur because god is in the spot when tragedy occurs and knows about it, and can stop it.
I reject the second and third ideas, and if there is a god like #1, I wouldn't think he'd care much for our worship.