This isn't only about the Forums, it's just about the subject in general.So, the question is, why do people think that Critisim is "Trolling" ,"Flaming" or "Hating"? It's honestly the thing that pisses me off the most. All the time I hear stuff like "He said my drawings need work, he's just a hater". Not everyone is going to loving sugarcoat everything. I understand it to a degree if they don't give any input other than "it sucks". I don't mean just drawings or pictures either, I mean in general. It happens here, and on pretty much every website known to man. It tends to start with a new guy. He acts stupid and a more well respected member tells him how to act better. The new guy sometimes proceeds to call the respected member a troll or something and blames him for flaming. It really gets me mad because, they don't take any suggestions and they don't improve, which only makes it worse. If people would realize that there's room for improvement, I wouldn't have a problem.
IkeTheGeneric puts this all pretty well.
Criticism isn't 'trolling'
Advice isn't 'trolling'
Input isn't 'trolling'
Nobody is 'trolling.
If you want to be taken seriously and gain respect, think before you post, read what others are posting and refrain from making yourself an idiot.
Unless the exact quota of each aren't met (and they aren't exactly difficult to), you are not welcome here.
There is no ifs, ands or buts.
Also, this is kinda what sparked me to make the thread.
11:27 PM - Sir PepsiDude: You're never gonna upload it anyway.
11:27 PM - aMity.AlexGT #BUSYforgetOFF: SHUT THE forget UP
11:27 PM - aMity.AlexGT #BUSYforgetOFF: YEAH
11:27 PM - aMity.AlexGT #BUSYforgetOFF: I NEVER WILL BECAUSE YOU loving HATE AND PICK AT FLAWS IN MY loving VIDEOS ALL THE loving TIME NOR WATCH THEM
So, as for this I honestly do give him Critisim, and usually I try to be honest but nice. I don't 'hate' on him remotely, the worst I ever did was tell him once of the voiced he did in a video was bad and that he could make it sound better with a different actor.
Anyways, discuss or whatever. Just wanted to give my two cents.
EDIT: I should say it mostly annoys me when it's my input being taken as trolling. I had a DeviantART a looonnggg time ago and people would accuse me of trolling if I gave them a bit of Advice on how to improve their works. It doesn't bother me in the sense that it just happens though.