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Off Topic / is it reasonable to feel this way?
« on: March 02, 2015, 11:10:31 PM »
I've been dating this girl for a little over 4 months now and we're pretty close so anyways today we were talking and one of our friends brought up something and my girlfriend mentioned how last July while she was on this cruise she made out with this guy in the bathroom.
So I was thinking more about it, I can't be mad obviously but like is it ok to see this as sorta a red flag or warning sign for a relationship or before the relationship even starts? Is it reasonable to see it that way? I know people hook up a lot and that stuff happens but I honestly think its strange to be making out with someone who you've known for only a few days. For me personally when I go on cruises or vacations I'm not looking to hook up with some girl that week I'm just looking to relax and enjoy the vacation and if I'm looking for a relationship I'm looking for a long term thing.
What do you guys think am I being logical in thinking that its sorta weird to hook up with someone you barely know or am I thinking about this too much?
So I was thinking more about it, I can't be mad obviously but like is it ok to see this as sorta a red flag or warning sign for a relationship or before the relationship even starts? Is it reasonable to see it that way? I know people hook up a lot and that stuff happens but I honestly think its strange to be making out with someone who you've known for only a few days. For me personally when I go on cruises or vacations I'm not looking to hook up with some girl that week I'm just looking to relax and enjoy the vacation and if I'm looking for a relationship I'm looking for a long term thing.
What do you guys think am I being logical in thinking that its sorta weird to hook up with someone you barely know or am I thinking about this too much?