Well guess what bud? That's not how it works in real life. In real life, you stick to one gender, the gender you are given, and that's it.
You seem to not really understand the difference between gender and love, or what gender means.
what keeps men going into the woman's restroom?
Non-issue. People can walk into any restroom they want as of right now lol. There are consequences of course, but nothing's stopping them. You might as well be freaking out about cross dressers.
The trans movement in a nutshell.
No, transgender is an actual phenomena, transrace is not. Very foolish.