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« on: December 26, 2013, 05:32:05 AM »
Explanation time! Incoming wall of text in 3, 2, 1...
OK so, for starters, my girlfriend (I'll call her Jill here) lives with her dad. Her mom died in a tragic car accident, while Jill was in the car. She was 7. Now, Jill could have lived with either her Mom's family, whom she knew the most, or with her dad, who she barely knew (that's a whole 'nother story). The judge, who was not fond of women, picked her dad, who, from what Jill told me, wanted her so he could get the money from the whole deal. All that's a different story that I don't know much but yeah context.
Now, here's where the fun part comes. One thing, he's a diabetic. BUT, when he has a diabetic attack and Jill is trying to get sugar into him and help him, he just throws her aside (quite literally). Whether this is a part of what could happen during an attack I don't know, maybe some of you do. Even then, when he's not low or anything, he's just a plain flat out richard to her. He just verbally abuses her, calls her a slut and a whore when she dresses "attractively". (Which in reality isn't even close to "slutty" clothing). Whenever she'll grab a poptart or have a bowl of cereal, he'll always yell at her that she's eating all the food and leaving none for him. He'll make dinner for himself and leave none for her.
Logic does not exist with him. If he knows something, well it must be OBVIOUS and EVERYONE should know it. Otherwise you're a stupid dumbass. I was taking her home from a Christmas party we were having, and I was driving slower and more cautiously because it was really foggy out and I couldn't see amazingly well. When he called her asking "WHERE THE HELL ARE YOU, WHY AREN'T YOU HOME?", and she said "Well it's really foggy so he's driving a little slower n stuff, I'll be home in a couple of minutes." Makes sense, right? Nope. "BULLstuff. GET YOUR ASS HOME RIGHT NOW." And as soon as they hung up, she started bawling her eyes out. I literally wanted to go in that house and just punch him in the face. But I didn't because "He's a good kid."
Here's my no. 1 favourite example: He hasn't taken her to the dentist in years. Not for financial reasons, he just didn't take her. He finally did a couple months ago. They found 6 cavities and a possible root cbrown town needed. You would think "Oh man, he must feel terrible and is going to get that taken care of as fast as possible!" NOPE. He's making her pay for it. Every bit of it.
But wait, there's more! She always tells me on multiple occasions of how he's slapped her dead across the face, picked her up and slammed her onto the couch, and, on one occasion that I know of, threw her into a wall. (That one's based on something I read on her blog. Whether it's true or not is tbk, but I honestly don't doubt it.) Just the other day I was at her house to pick her up for a Christmas party we were going to, and we just saw him grab their dog by the neck and fling her outside. (she's maybe 9 years old, frail, and has serious medical problems).
Here's the kicker though. Whenever I'm over at her house, he's always all "doo do dooo I'm a great person I'm nice and kind and I don't slap your girlfriend right across her face." I call bullstuff. Don't act like your daughter doesn't tell her boyfriend when you call her a loving slut and physically harm her.
Now when you start thinking "Oh this is all made up/she's probably lying to you for sympathy", it's not and she's not. She's got scars to prove it, and I've seen how he treats the dog. There are times where I want to just walk in there and speak my mind. If I wanted to I could shut him down so hard Australia could feel it. But I'm not. Not yet. Not until she's moved out and we've got a place together.
Tl;dr: My girlfriends dad is a richard. He hits her and calls her terrible names and I hate it.
Anyway, thanks for reading. I really needed to vent that out. There's seriously so much more but I don't want to type all of it out.