i wasn't claiming straight-only social media existed, i was responding to blueblur's hypothetical.
the problem is that the people criticizing skittlr want to have it both ways: they want to complain about people who don't fit in the heteronormative box when they're on a shared service but then complain when non-hetnorm gets its own service. that's not working towards no judgements, that's asserting superiority (or trying to, anyway).
besides, who cares if there are some gay/bi/les/trans+ who want to find friends/romantic partners who are similar? why does it actually hurt you? nothing changes in your life because of FarmersOnly or BlackPeopleMeet or JDate
it's not a dating site though is my problem
if it was a dating site that would be fine, i can understand that loveual preference is useful for finding romantic partners because doy
my problem is it's a just talk with people site so therefore straight people should not be talked with
also i have deep scars from blackpeoplemeet don't you even loving dare