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tbh the biggest thing u learn from highschool relationships is that people change.hey this is my thread
ive been in a poly relationship btw, im not polyamorous however. AMA
Idk man, it's confusing. I've never had a polyamorous relationship before. I've had several FWB's, but if I understand correctly there's a difference. You consider each of your partners to be a boyfriend / girlfriend right?it hasn't really gotten to that point with anybody so far. it could happen but rn i'm just having fun with multiple people
whack itactually not a bad idea.
forget I LITERALLY HAD THE WORD IN MY HEAD AND REMEMBER HAVING THE WORD IN MY HEAD WHEN I WAS TYPING THAT RESPONSE BUT IT'S NOT THERE ANYMOREaight thanks
edit: its monoamory
let's remember that -gamy means marriagemonamory? monoamory? the forget is it? i knew the thing about gamy but i didn't want it to sound forgety
i wouldn't do a poly relationship but if a group of people are into that then more power to themyeah see this is a great attitude about it. i totally get not being into the multiple people thing, i once felt very jealous in that situation because i wanted to be considered #1 to everyone and i always wanted to be everyone's center of attention, but i've kinda edged off of that and now that i'm doing it myself it's much more comfortable and i understand the appeal of it.
1. you're younger than me loli know i'm younger than you. i haven't figured that stuff out yet, adults haven't figured that stuff out yet.
2. why are you telling me what i know
Is this gonna turn into a cuck-like situationyou mean what I'm doing to the person i hung out with today? only if they let that happen, if they cut things off with me i'm not going to try and object. i will be sad but depending on their priorities it'd probably be the best for them.
despite my short time in the relationship game i can actually tell when my feelings are actual romantic attraction or lustyeah, you think that. it's more complicated than that. sorry for double post
so while im here what point do people actually know how romantic feelings work and what is the difference between a romantic attraction and just lustwell for me, romantic attraction is if i really thought about a person and i said "there is no one else that I trust more and want to invest my time in than this person, and given the opportunity to be with anyone else, no matter who it is, i would turn it down."
So basically you're saying that you want an open relationship with someone?i don't really feel romantic attraction to anybody rn, and i'm alright with that. i want to have good friends who i can also kiss/get more physical with if the opportunity presents itself, without getting into anything exclusive. i will know when the time is right to be exclusive with someone.
Polyamory is all fun and games until a lover's feelings get hurt. It's important that you're open about this kind of stuff with your partners, and that they don't mind it.yeah i definitely make a point to be upfront about it with whoever i'm flirting with. i never like to leave things ambiguous. it sucks when you like the person but they do mind it
works at shady hodot stand for the next 30 yearsftfy
