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Off Topic / Re: Post your phone number.
« on: February 25, 2015, 09:36:33 AM »Oh well. Good luck with Argentina's area codes.Google Hangouts figures that automatically. Calling you would cost 0.02 cent per minute.
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Off Topic / Re: Post your phone number.
« on: February 25, 2015, 09:29:21 AM »
Google Hangouts allows for free calling to many of these phone numbers.
Be aware.
Be aware.
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Off Topic / Re: Post your phone number.
« on: February 25, 2015, 09:21:35 AM »
Actually nevermind tbh
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Off Topic / Re: how often do you beat it?
« on: February 25, 2015, 08:00:36 AM »BULLstuff!go home
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Off Topic / Re: Everything just clicked for me (inb4blogland)
« on: February 25, 2015, 07:58:57 AM »
lol welp people are putting words in my mouth so im booking it out of this thread after i say what i wanted to say in private to OP
Get help ASAP, don't hide your illness from people that have to know.
When you get help, from a therapist or a doctor, be aware that they can only hold your hand through what your illness is. You have to do the work as they guide you through it.
The pills you might get have a ton of side effects, it's up to you if you want to take them. I didn't. I prefer cannabis because it makes you happy instead of numb. My ex used to take prozac and that was not ideal. (Hell I have 3 other friends that take it and same story).
If you ever have a breakdown, don't fight it alone, get help either long distance or close. As long as you are distracted.
I've personally used escapism a lot to get troubles off my mind, find some good books you would like to read, or movies you'd like to watch. Personally, I never feel as good as when I get back from the movies. It's awesome and I go to the movies for primarily that reason. Don't be afraid to go out alone.
Going for walks helps a lot too, pick some nice music (I play Passion pit) if you go on one.
If you have to deal with impulse reactions, and realize it was all wrong either directly after or a while after, explain to the person in effect what happened. This is really important, they have to know that whatever you did was influenced, then it's up to them what they'll do with it.
Oh en please refrain from long lasting impulse reactions like writing up a story or spending money. I sometimes make a purchase or write a post on a forum, realize it's totally wrong and shrug, thinking "this is an impulse reaction and I can't stop it" whilst I obviously can. (Most of this has to do with stalking my ex).
Please stop hurting yourself by the way, it will do nothing and if you ever feel like doing such a thing, find distraction, like I said. Don't hurt others that care about you by hurting yourself. No one wins.
I can't really help with the lying part, because it simply is quite vague if it's part of borderline or not.
Good luck, I'll still read replies in this thread and if you have a question about this post, PM me.
Get help ASAP, don't hide your illness from people that have to know.
When you get help, from a therapist or a doctor, be aware that they can only hold your hand through what your illness is. You have to do the work as they guide you through it.
The pills you might get have a ton of side effects, it's up to you if you want to take them. I didn't. I prefer cannabis because it makes you happy instead of numb. My ex used to take prozac and that was not ideal. (Hell I have 3 other friends that take it and same story).
If you ever have a breakdown, don't fight it alone, get help either long distance or close. As long as you are distracted.
I've personally used escapism a lot to get troubles off my mind, find some good books you would like to read, or movies you'd like to watch. Personally, I never feel as good as when I get back from the movies. It's awesome and I go to the movies for primarily that reason. Don't be afraid to go out alone.
Going for walks helps a lot too, pick some nice music (I play Passion pit) if you go on one.
If you have to deal with impulse reactions, and realize it was all wrong either directly after or a while after, explain to the person in effect what happened. This is really important, they have to know that whatever you did was influenced, then it's up to them what they'll do with it.
Oh en please refrain from long lasting impulse reactions like writing up a story or spending money. I sometimes make a purchase or write a post on a forum, realize it's totally wrong and shrug, thinking "this is an impulse reaction and I can't stop it" whilst I obviously can. (Most of this has to do with stalking my ex).
Please stop hurting yourself by the way, it will do nothing and if you ever feel like doing such a thing, find distraction, like I said. Don't hurt others that care about you by hurting yourself. No one wins.
I can't really help with the lying part, because it simply is quite vague if it's part of borderline or not.
Good luck, I'll still read replies in this thread and if you have a question about this post, PM me.
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Off Topic / Re: Pebble Time - holy forget look at the money they raked in
« on: February 25, 2015, 07:47:24 AM »this looks more useful than what apple and android have to me lolI've used the Moto 360 and no
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Off Topic / Re: Everything just clicked for me (inb4blogland)
« on: February 25, 2015, 07:45:28 AM »idk why you're being so aggressive lavender, the guy is trying to figure out what's going onI'm not trying to be. Uh, I don't think I even was, reading back on my post?
I even suggested him to talk to me, did we read the same post?
Edit:
was it because I didnt understand what he said in the reply
i legitimately did not know what he meant
thats why i asked
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Off Topic / Re: Everything just clicked for me (inb4blogland)
« on: February 25, 2015, 07:28:57 AM »I'm not trying to generalize, but that'd be my experience being in a relationship with someone with untreated bpd.I have no clue what you're saying here.
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Off Topic / Re: Everything just clicked for me (inb4blogland)
« on: February 25, 2015, 07:10:08 AM »
I also have borderline and a burdening depression. Talk to me if you want.
I do not recall anything about lying though, not even when I was being tested (positively) for borderline.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder
Also being a rudeass isn't a symptom either. I'm diagnosed and I'm mellow as hell. But to be honest that's probably because if I get to a certain point of breakdown the only medication I take (forget prozac) is cannabis.
This talk about relationships you just had is so odd. I've had a relationship for two years and have had effects like Folie a deux happen to me, but not at all have I gotten to be a lying dipstuff. I had a perfectly normal relationship if you can live with the fact that I was a little bit more clingy than usual. The point that my illness started to play in was the final month of the relationship where there was a girl in his life that was almost exactly like me, but 'better' i guess. I got super clingy because the idea of cheating haunted my mind. He broke up after I figured he was actually cheating (thanks borderline) and since then (5 months ago) I've been stalking him and have been a giant loving mess because I can't deal with breakups like a normal non-ill person.
I do not recall anything about lying though, not even when I was being tested (positively) for borderline.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder
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Some theorists argue that patients with BPD often lie.[148] However, others write that they have rarely seen lying among patients with BPD in clinical practice.[148] Regardless, lying is not one of the diagnostic criteria for BPD.
Congrats. With this proper diagnosis you should be able to get medication and treatment that will make an enormous difference.It won't at all the pills you will swallow will make your body numb and emotionless other than normal.
Also being a rudeass isn't a symptom either. I'm diagnosed and I'm mellow as hell. But to be honest that's probably because if I get to a certain point of breakdown the only medication I take (forget prozac) is cannabis.
holy forget people with bpd just want to manipulate and control you and will hurt you more in the process than anyone else, then they apologize and cry about how they love you and then repeatgo home.
This talk about relationships you just had is so odd. I've had a relationship for two years and have had effects like Folie a deux happen to me, but not at all have I gotten to be a lying dipstuff. I had a perfectly normal relationship if you can live with the fact that I was a little bit more clingy than usual. The point that my illness started to play in was the final month of the relationship where there was a girl in his life that was almost exactly like me, but 'better' i guess. I got super clingy because the idea of cheating haunted my mind. He broke up after I figured he was actually cheating (thanks borderline) and since then (5 months ago) I've been stalking him and have been a giant loving mess because I can't deal with breakups like a normal non-ill person.
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Drama / Re: Blockoheader2007 - stuffposting
« on: February 25, 2015, 06:37:28 AM »Maybe this is why the community is stuff, it's 75% kids under 14.I don't mind it.
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Off Topic / Re: Pebble Time - holy forget look at the money they raked in
« on: February 25, 2015, 06:28:00 AM »
I'm sorry but this looks so much worse than the things Google and Apple are releasing. I've been interested in smartwatches, and have been thinking about getting a Fitbit. I don't see myself getting a Pebble because it just looks old and not ideal.
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Off Topic / Re: Bad/weird stuff you see on deviantArt - Megathread
« on: February 25, 2015, 06:24:26 AM »where the forget did you find my fursona
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Off Topic / Re: i plan on learning game development, i have an idea on what i'm doing
« on: February 24, 2015, 07:29:40 PM »c# is pretty similar to java, just go with thatAnd yet it's in high demand. ; )
i looked at c++'s syntax and would not wish learning that on even my worst of enemies
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Off Topic / Re: i plan on learning game development, i have an idea on what i'm doing
« on: February 24, 2015, 07:19:47 PM »
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Games / Re: Longest gone Steam friends
« on: February 24, 2015, 07:18:12 PM »
Yo forget I'm thinking about all the people I played online matches with for all these years on things like CoD, Tf2, Bf, CSGO, etc and imagining how many statistically are dead.
the number is not pleasing.
the number is not pleasing.