Don't get me wrong, I'd be upset. But I'd also still learn to move past it. I can't just go and clock the guy even if he did something like that. I live by the moral of, "Turn the other cheek".
And I get what you're saying that I shouldn't be posting my support and this thread because it's counter-intuitive in my own mentality. But it's more than likely that everyone in this thread will forgive and forget after time. As would I in the situation you gave me. I'm not saying you shouldn't be upset. I'm just saying that you shouldn't take it too far.
its hard to forgive and forget when people keep opening up your wounds as an individual of a race. Trust me, i hold no grudge against white people for the tribal history. However, i do hold a grudge against white people for having a tribal present