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Off Topic / Re: Im batstuff terrified of being loved (blogland)

« on: July 11, 2018, 06:42:47 PM »

I swear to God wasn't espio like 15 at one point since when is he 18? am I just going crazy

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Off Topic / Re: Im batstuff terrified of being loved (blogland)

« on: July 11, 2018, 06:37:19 PM »

All of that aside if you're in a healthy relationship then congratulations, but thats really an anomaly for most people. Everyone should approach love cautiously with the knowledge that there's a high chance it will damage your emotional health for a really long time.

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Off Topic / Re: Im batstuff terrified of being loved (blogland)

« on: July 11, 2018, 06:28:11 PM »

lol if the person you're dating completely destroys your individuality, you're dating the wrong person. the problem doesn't lie in relationships as a concept, it lies in the person you try to have a relationship with. dating a stuffty person? you're gonna have a stuffty relationship that tears you down. dating a good person? you're gonna have a good relationship that builds you up, supports you, and benefits you both.

yes in theory all of this is true but good partners don't exist. maintaining a romantic relationship that is so intimate requires partners with opposite values. this is why friends are more important, they have the same values as you. your partner can't, naturally because we are romantically attracted to people who are different than ourselves

In general it's so much safer to stick to no strings attached superficial relationships, especially while younger, so you can develop as an individual person, because the perfect date never exists and if they do they're probably just a stuffty person masquerading as the perfect date. anyone who argues that their partner is their soulmate is basically insecure and has to lie to themselves and other people in order to give the happy family appearance that people put on a pedistal

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Off Topic / Re: Im batstuff terrified of being loved (blogland)

« on: July 11, 2018, 06:22:15 PM »

r u ok

when you're single, you have the freedom to explore your dreams and achieve as much as you want because the only person who matters is yourself. as soon as you start a romantic relationship all that dream stuff goes on hold indefinitely as your life is no longer about you, but about your partner. Suddenly there's someone else who is now the center of your attention. Then when you inevitably break up, you have a huge gap in your psyche where all your individuality used to be, and you have to work for months just to fill that hole partially and motivate yourself

The younger you are, the worse this stuff is. Espio's like 16 too which is like the average time when you gain really warped romantic experience that changes your personality forever. Love is bad for you

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Off Topic / Re: Im batstuff terrified of being loved (blogland)

« on: July 11, 2018, 06:13:13 PM »

sounds like someone's gotten hurt in relationships a couple times huh

of course, who doesn't? The entire time you date someone you basically destroy your individuality and replace it with some lovey dovey stuff and then your partner does some dumbstuff and then you're left with a huge 6 month loss of your life which you have to regain. This is universal across most relationships

Literally everyone here is under the age of 25 like how can you expect anyone to have a mature and healthy romantic relationship with anyone?

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Off Topic / Re: Im batstuff terrified of being loved (blogland)

« on: July 11, 2018, 06:05:39 PM »

Also love is an overrated hormonal response. Just forget and move on, nothing good comes out of relationships

Both nyu and Cornell have done intensive studies and found that casual love is good for your mental health compared to serious relationship love

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Off Topic / Re: Im batstuff terrified of being loved (blogland)

« on: July 11, 2018, 06:03:11 PM »

I saw the title and I kinda anticipated who the poster would be and then I saw it was espio and I was like well lol I was right

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Off Topic / Re: First post so first (Discuss anything idk)

« on: July 11, 2018, 05:45:38 PM »

eat some pierogis, hungry boy.

fbsgudvusrqdcrhsrutz (that's me yelling at you with my mouth stuffed with Android)

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Off Topic / Re: First post so first (Discuss anything idk)

« on: July 11, 2018, 05:38:58 PM »

it's "-doing" you d u m m y
also you have "F" in your name
*pays respect*

this post makes me want to eat my phone out of blind anger mixed with hunger

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Drama / Re: Necro bumping.

« on: July 11, 2018, 05:33:32 PM »

A necrobump is when you see a dead body and get a little bit of an erection

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Off Topic / Re: Furries and Juggalos

« on: July 11, 2018, 05:30:17 PM »

I support anyone who supports violent j for supporting his daughter for supporting furries. but I cannot support anyone who supports furries

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Help / Re: Server Crashing

« on: July 11, 2018, 05:01:06 PM »

Didn't you just fix this

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Games / Re: samus vs joanna dark - battle of the babes

« on: July 11, 2018, 04:00:05 PM »

Rosalina or Peach.

you constantly say 'this is gonna be hard' then throw a totally easy vote like this. Like there isn't even competition between Rosalina and peach, it's obvious that star milf wins by a longshot

Like who would forget a boring ass princess who just bakes cakes when you can bone the literal goddess of the Galaxy? She also has a million years of love experience all in that 30 something body like she can do so much freaky stuff you can't even conceive of with your mortal human mind

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Off Topic / Re: Furries and Juggalos

« on: July 11, 2018, 03:52:57 PM »

Time to spearhead the furry clown joint eradication

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Creativity / Re: The new and improved 3D model topic!

« on: July 11, 2018, 03:40:43 PM »

Nah but.... Imagine that background but like, animated.... Woosh