that sounds like a terrible church
yeah they're pretty crazy. it's mostly old white people who go there, but the one who led the 6 or 8 week "study" on the "biblical man and woman" was pretty young and gave stellar ideas like these:
the man should be a slave driver to the women of the house
women should not be allowed in leadership positions and should give them to men
women should not be allowed to work and should stay at home making babies
women should follow their husband's orders
if the woman works, all of her money should be given to the husband
if the woman earns more than the man, then the man is failing in his duties as a "godly husband"
the man always has final say, and if he gives up his position as "head of the house" then he's failing as a "godly husband"
women should not be allowed to teach in church, unless they're teaching young children
women may not preach or be deacons
women that are raped should not be allowed to fear other men but should be forced into groups of men
there was a bunch more and it was all sickening and i had to tune most of it out bc it made me feel physically ill to hear it