and this is what he's publicly admitting. like, this whole post and story sound insanely defensive. im pretty sure it was even more rude than in the OP
nope that is exactly what I asked he word for word, since she answered at 8:45 this morning it was hard for me to quote her answer exactly. Like I said twice, I didn't mean to offend her, I should've said cloth, or scarf or anything but rag, I forgeted up, and she was angry, a little too angry for what I thought was a simple insignificant mistake. that is the reason I posted this thread, because people always give little crazy stories and talk about their screw ups in their personal life on this board.
also Id like to say I thought about how to phrase this, I thought that straight up asking her if she was a muslim instead of asking her about her cloth first would be just as offensive, especially if I turned out to be wrong and she wore it for some other reason I don't just let things fall out of my mouth without thinking, but I said the wrong word at the crucial moment