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Off Topic / Re: update regarding abusive household
« on: April 12, 2020, 08:47:31 PM »
record everything, take pictures of everything, record when he says or does dumb stuff, if u cant get him in trouble with the cops then you can atleast have something to tarnish the dudes rep, thats the best advice i can offer u. also look for different shrinks because the one your going to sounds like a bootlicker and hopefully a new one can see the footage and at bare minimum offer some kind of help. install one of those apps that records in the background so if he thinks ur recording u can just say "im not" and show you playing candy crush or some stuff
no i really dont see a big problem, hes not loving beating the stuff out of him. Thats abuse is a drunk mother forgeter who beats their kids. There's definitely a problem but i wouldn't call it abuse. I had to learn how to deal with my dad and how not to get on his nerves and now we don't have THAT many problems. He still gets pissed even when I don't do anything, which is what I had to get used to and not think anything about. Just kinda ignore him when ever hes screaming a fit and dont get an attitude. That type of parenting really isn't uncommon and I kinda like it. I was loving up and just him alone all of the sudden made me realize not only what an idiot I was but how bad I felt. You gotta feel bad for someone like that. They have it bad enough with anger, they don't need their kid to worry about too. It also made me figure out how I'm gonna parent my own kid, because when I look at other mother forgeters, they're punks. I'm not a punk. But he also went wrong in raising me aswell. So it takes one of those people to take one less of those people out of the world, so hopefully my kid wont have a parent like that. Sooner or later your gonna have to stop talking to people about it and keep it inside your room. Writing your problems down to yourself really helps. Just don't show that hes getting to you. Therapy is a waste of loving time, they just tell you the same bull stuff over and over again that you had already figured. "Well maybe just keep a happy attitude!" Over and over. It will take time to figure it out but one day you will. The problems wont go away they will just lessen.besides the rampant stockholm syndrome justifications here alpha apex predator chads dont justify the abuse they're getting by saying "yeah ill just abuse my kid when i grow up" lol, go take some pills or some stuff or ill probably see u on the news for a mass shooting/infantcide murder in 8 years
