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Off Topic / Re: Does anybody think dragons are cool?

« on: May 16, 2013, 06:31:25 PM »

Define bullied. If they punched you in the nuts, spit on you and shouted "TEAM DRAGON SLAYER, BEEUUUTCH," then yes you were bullied.

It depends on the dragon. Personally I find most well designed dragons neat, but I can't say I'd want one as a pet unless it was like avatar (person bonds with mount on an emotional and mental level)

Also, dragons with control over lightening > all others in my book. Name that bitch Thor and just hit stuff with bits of lightening.

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Off Topic / Re: Post real life pictures of yourself.

« on: May 16, 2013, 06:56:46 AM »

congrats on the triathlon

Lol I was working as staff, I've sort of laid back on working out. I keep myself skinny but I've read around and I've had some friends of mine who take a weight lifting class tell me that lifting at my age has some adverse effects, so I'm holding off until I hit 18, but I'm working out a work out schedule this week end.

I was mostly grading test papers, but I also dressed up as this big plush letter A and I went around to pose with all the kids. It was pretty fun. It WASN'T fun putting up with parents. "Are you sure my kid didnt come in first place?? He's a genius you know!"

But I don't regret it.

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Off Topic / Re: I've made some bad decisions in the past month or so

« on: May 16, 2013, 06:48:09 AM »

I wouldn't reccomend telling her what she CAN'T/SHOULDN'T do until she flat out tells you "this is how I tried to end it all." I also wouldn't reccomend a counselor until you've talked with her about it, and then you ask her if she would consider counseling if she HAS been cutting.

Just don't hound her about it, otherwise she'll think that's ALL you care about.

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Off Topic / Re: I've made some bad decisions in the past month or so

« on: May 15, 2013, 11:54:08 PM »

she had her stomach pumped, pretty sure thats not something you can do incognito lol

It's painful, but doesnt neccisarily require parents, depending on age and state laws.
But you are right.

Though now that you bring that I up only wonder more... What. It sounds like she may have ingested a drug roostertail in hopes of a deadly reaction. Would definitely be reason enough.

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Off Topic / Re: Post Your Phone Homescreens v1000

« on: May 15, 2013, 11:30:04 PM »

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Off Topic / Re: I've made some bad decisions in the past month or so

« on: May 15, 2013, 11:27:32 PM »

well i was going to say just back off but now i thought about it in a personal context

if this girl i knew told me she was suicidal i'm not sure how i'd react.  that's rough man

if you don't genuinely care about this chick you should just back off and let her family deal with her

And run the risk of them not knowing/caring and she dies
Then red feels bad
Then red commits Self Delete
Then it spreads to forums
Entire BLF forum is wiped out except for badspit because he doesn't feel emotions, only binary

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Off Topic / Re: Post real life pictures of yourself.

« on: May 15, 2013, 11:11:55 PM »

would bang the white chick on the far left

I'd bang all five

forget i love your hair

this is now hair themed

K here we go, gonna gel my hair just so I have an excuse to shower, super stick inbound.
Before gel:


Gel hair #1:


Unicorn Gel Hair:


I'm done now I can shower for half an hour

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Off Topic / Re: I've made some bad decisions in the past month or so

« on: May 15, 2013, 11:05:28 PM »

I'm not in any way saying keep it going, I'm saying YOU have some self control and lay down boundaries if she tries anything. If she's emotionally compromised, the last thing she wants is for someone who hardly seems to know her, to give her dating advice.

Just be honest with her Jesus, you can ask her personal questions, she's still human. Women love being asked questions, it lets them you care.

If she accidentally sits on your lap, don't bible thump her and start preaching about how shell go to hell for being a cheating whore, smile and say oops, then scoot over so she can have your spot.
Shortened as it gets:
Don't tell her what she can't do
Apologize for being straightforward
Have an honest convo (just out of curiousity... Hey I heard that... So I was wondering... Etc)
Watch wrists / thighs.
My last true relationship lasted 2 years, and every day she wanted to commit Self Delete. She was hospitalized several times, raped, abused, beaten and possibly cheated. But I kept my cool and calmly talked with her and we were honest to each other. You could look at her oday and have no idea she used to cut, but I know where she applies the makeup to cover the thousands and thousands of scars.

If you can see scars, that means she's not bothering to cover them, and she wants help/attention. If you see randomly placed makeup anywhere on her body, she had probably been cutting there but doesn't want anyone to know.

The method at which she's tried Self Delete could vary and so the signs change as such, but even then, you should pay close attention. If she went over the edge, would you REALLY feel good about yourself knowing she trusted and talked with you, but you did nothing?

Imagine yourself in your weakest, most vulnerable state, your like a bubble: the smallest pressure and POP! Now you've told someone about why your weak, and they rant off on you thinking your coming on to them.



Does any of this make sense?

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Off Topic / Re: I've made some bad decisions in the past month or so

« on: May 15, 2013, 10:20:19 PM »

I wouldn't tell her jack stuff if she's suicidal. If she wants to cheat, YOU won't stop her, tough luck bud. But if you manage to make her feel BAD in the process of telling her not to cheat and she ends it all, and if the law makes a connection to you... It doesn't end well.

These 3 guys told a girl like 6 years ago to just killer herself
so she did
they've been in prison since then and will remain there for another 4 years.
I should say juvy, but it's really the same thing in my eyes

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Off Topic / Re: You meet the above user in a dark alley

« on: May 15, 2013, 03:15:31 PM »

Ask da brother if he got ma stuff
Be all up like "w'sup dog, yo you got da goods? Daaaamn I smell it from heya, holla!"

Say hi how are you and probably not even realize what happened

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Off Topic / Re: I've made some bad decisions in the past month or so

« on: May 15, 2013, 03:14:12 PM »

Women don't HAVE to forget you, really hate to say it. If she grabs your richard and asks you to mash, yeah she's a whore. Otherwise telling her you don't wanna hook up is waaaaay too out of it for her. "obv. Something is going on."

Obvious is when they flat out tell you. You don't KNOW she wants you in her pants, and for all you know she could just want to have a good guy friend who she can trust. She came out and told you he was suicidal, which is an astronomically big deal, and you told her you didn't wanna cheat somewhere in the convo.

What.
How.
If she said something like "let's forget, love always makes me feel better." then yes, leave, go ahead, but telling a suicidal person you don't wanna cheat is inadvertently calling her a slut. That's not gonna help that whole Self Delete deal.

That's just my 2 cents.

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Off Topic / Re: What were your favorite games on PC as a child?

« on: May 14, 2013, 10:05:51 PM »

Power Pete brother
goin' old school
played this stuff when I was like 7... Nobody knew of it, but my dad showed it to me. When I was much younger, my dad was THE coolest person on Earth, and I thought he looked JUST like Power Pete, therefor he WAS power pete.

All I recall is the shooting of dinosaurs and this somewhat gay "PoWEr PEEte!" cry everytime some kind of power up boost was achieved...

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Off Topic / Re: Post real life pictures of yourself.

« on: May 14, 2013, 10:01:52 PM »

No, devil is the bearded, balding round man with the old navy jacket

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Off Topic / Re: I'm having four wisdom teeth removed in the morning

« on: May 14, 2013, 04:35:32 PM »

You still have time. Do it now.

ask your dad to remove them with a pair of pliers, works wonders
make sure he uses his sledge hammer to make sure your good and sleepy before hand though

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Off Topic / Re: Post real life pictures of yourself.

« on: May 14, 2013, 04:32:29 PM »

http://youshouldntwearthatfedora.tumblr.com/

try and stop me

I'll wear it even more frequently