i didn't see any decent ideas
i saw a lot of joke ideas, and a lot of "go to a therapist", and a lot of vague ideas like "just go get friends lol" that didn't tell me how/where to get friends
but i didn't see decent ideas
Since no one else will, I'll be more specific.
start out by just meeting new people online. no i don't mean omegle, meets some people you don't know much about. people on this forum, you can start with. then eventually when you feel okay about it you can go to microphone chat, and at some point you can get to talk to real people.
or just take a walk around town or something. you'll see other people probably, you wont be talking to them unless they say something to you, but you'll still get a little used to being around them.
go to a retirement home old people love young people and stories
and peanut butter
Walking to the places to enjoy and meet people, talking to friends, well what do ya know. I was off by 8. but hey, they could still work.
here's a tip:
start by talking to a few people on the mic and try AS HARD AS YOU CAN to not have a panic attack.
you're going to wear it off eventually and you wont get panic attacks online, we call it facing your fears.
your fear being around people, you have to get over this or good luck getting a job.
here's a tip:
start by talking to a few people on the mic and try AS HARD AS YOU CAN to not have a panic attack.
you're going to wear it off eventually and you wont get panic attacks online, we call it facing your fears.
your fear being around people, you have to get over this or good luck getting a job.
Maybe they weren't the suggestions you were looking for, but these people did try. Quit telling everyone in this thread that there weren't any suggestions other than school, or therapy. There were, you just rejected them all.
Also this
@kumquat I CANT FIND FRIENDS BECAUSE THERES NOWHERE TO GO TO FIND FRIENDS BECAUSE NO ONE IS TELLING ME WHERE TO GO TO FIND FRIENDS AND HOW TO OVERCOME MY ANXIETY
Are you loving kidding me? Like we are supposed to know your town? How people are there? Socializing isn't a math that we can tell you how, and where to do it, and know that it will work. We can socialize because we have spent time doing it, practiced it, learned how to do it, built our own style of doing it. You can't just be good at it. I know you have a fear of it, that's cool. I used to be scared of bees. To the point I wouldn't go outside in the summer because I could see some bees. I was so terrified I would run, and injure my self in the process because of how scared I was. I think you exaggerate your problem. I don't think you have it as bad as you claim you do. Even if you do, it's going to be hard, and you're are going to have to try. You have to put effort into this. We can't tell you about a magical place where you can go without social fears, and easily make friends, and have these great social skills. Doesn't work like that, you have to go out into the world, and try it on your own. Don't give me stuff about how you "JUST CAN'T," you aren't loving trying. Quit feeling bad for yourself, and change you stuff life.