You haven't given us any information to help you with. What kind of video card do you have? At what point to you get lost in the driver update tutorial? What driver are you attempting to install? Are you actually installing it or just downloading it like a handicap?
well I'm not a computer genius but this is some information i got from searching "Dxdiag" in run and clicking the "Display" tab:
Device
Name: Intel(R) 82810E Graphics Controller
Manufacturer: Intel Corporation
Chip Type: Intel(R) 82810
DAC Type: Internal
Approx. Total Memory: 32.0 MB
Current Display Mode: 1152 X 864 (16 bit) (60Hz)
Monitor: Plug and Play Monitor
Drivers
Main Driver: i81xdnt5.dll
Version: 6.13.0001.3196 (English)
Date: 7/23/2002 09:01:38
WHQL Logo'd: Yes
Mini VDD: i81xnt5.sys
VDD: n/a
DDI Version: 8