Don't feel bad about the system. I'm adopted, and I've been adopted into just about the best family I could've (unless, of course, it was possible to get adopted into some multi billionaire's family, which it probably isn't). stuff like that doesn't happen. Trust me. Families who are giving their children up for adoption screen the families they are giving the child to. If the gay couple didn't get the kid, that's because of the parent, not because of the system. I mean, you can feel bad if you want, but honestly I wouldn't. It's not very much of a big deal since stuff like that doesn't generally happen.