Would you feel differently if the fire had started from he lighting a cigarette in her double life?
Just a thought, no one really knows what goes on in a person when no one is around.
On another note, she sounds like one of the very few great people that are actually left in the world, I could not say I am one of them. Someone make a time machine and make it so she escapes, I want to see if she becomes president.
If there is a heaven, may she be at the highest point. My condolences.