there are hundreds of personal definitions and few people know the correct one
this topic can't be applied to the genre of music, however
it's about the people, not the music
The so called "emo" culture is handicapped, I will give you that. But it never should've been called emo.
And that is what makes me angry. Emo's for the most part are just pussier versions of goths, and that's all they should be called.