You must first procure a treat, to motivate the bot. Be sure that all reinforcement is positive, treat your bot with respect and love. Petting, love emotes, playing sports balls together, and dryhumping are great examples of positive reinforcement. ABSOLUTELY NO d-wanding, alarm spam, "noob traps", or repeated gunshots to the face. Always be firm, but remember to stay gentle. The relationship between you and your bot is very special, your love will blossom each and every day as you learn more about each other.
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