Off topic, but hey: My name is Akemi too. :D
Only on the forums though. :c
On Topic: I honestly don't feel as if this was worth a drama, I know it was stupid and the reasoning for your kick was dumb, but it's not like he banned you or anything. But asking your gender can be kind of weird if there's no RPing going on.
My personal opinion though?
Don't RP. This is the most common outcome from them.