Long story short, her dad doesn't know we're dating and we basically hang out in secret to him. From what she's told me, if he knew about us, we would hardly EVER be able to hang out, because he's WAY too overprotective. She has to tell him she's coming over to my house with friends to play videogames n stuff in order to come over and hang out. I can't go to her house because her dad has freakin cameras everywhere. So today, she's telling me like "I don't know if I want to today, I've told him the same thing too many times and I think it'l be suspicious." So like any logical person would do I told her to just tell him something different, that she's not coming to my house or anything. She completely avoided the idea and never told me why she wouldn't, and I've told her it 3 times. So I've been sitting in my house alone and bored as hell for all day, and I've subliminally told her that I was bored as hell, saying things like "Watching water boil is a great time passer!" and "I've been trying to kill this fly for 2 hours." and being less of the "lovey-dubby" I usually am towards her. She's so oblivious to my severe boredom and dissapointedness that she won't just do what I know will work.
Maybe I'm just overreacting and being stupid, but when people don't listen to my ideas that I know will work, I become oh-so-very passive aggressive and it's fun.
I guess talk about stuff that makes you passive aggressive towards people, I dunno.