Author Topic: I love being passive aggressive :D  (Read 612 times)

Long story short, her dad doesn't know we're dating and we basically hang out in secret to him. From what she's told me, if he knew about us, we would hardly EVER be able to hang out, because he's WAY too overprotective. She has to tell him she's coming over to my house with friends to play videogames n stuff in order to come over and hang out. I can't go to her house because her dad has freakin cameras everywhere. So today, she's telling me like "I don't know if I want to today, I've told him the same thing too many times and I think it'l be suspicious." So like any logical person would do I told her to just tell him something different, that she's not coming to my house or anything. She completely avoided the idea and never told me why she wouldn't, and I've told her it 3 times. So I've been sitting in my house alone and bored as hell for all day, and I've subliminally told her that I was bored as hell, saying things like "Watching water boil is a great time passer!" and "I've been trying to kill this fly for 2 hours." and being less of the "lovey-dubby" I usually am towards her. She's so oblivious to my severe boredom and dissapointedness that she won't just do what I know will work.

Maybe I'm just overreacting and being stupid, but when people don't listen to my ideas that I know will work, I become oh-so-very passive aggressive and it's fun.

I guess talk about stuff that makes you passive aggressive towards people, I dunno.

passive aggressive people are total richards. you should try to understand that she has her reasons and you should respect that instead of peer pressuring her into spending time with you.

in the past 4 weeks we've been together 2 times.
It's not that I'm pressuring her into coming, it's that she's avoiding my solutions to the problem.


in the past 4 weeks we've been together 2 times.
It's not that I'm pressuring her into coming, it's that she's avoiding my solutions to the problem.

lets be honest. its a stuffty relationship and it is going to be a stuffty relationship for potentially years. end it and find someone more available or wait until she's old enough to be independent. If the idea of breaking up with her totally scares you, I think you're just going to need to endure this by being totally understanding with her. being passive aggressive is a douchebag move and she's probably ignoring your hints because you're hurting her feelings.