guys i know i was entirely at fault. cruise control was the thing that actually caused the accident due to it not letting off the throttle, had i not yanked the VDC fuse, cruise control would have been disabled whenever a tire slip is detected.
i don't doubt i was at fault and a lot of stupid decisions were made, this is what has taught me that handling a car of this caliber isn't something i'm suitable for while i need one car to serve as a dd.
on the subject of the tires, i drag race and drift my car a lot so it currently has drag radials on it which are built to not have tread, not that i can't afford tires.