To a point, you would have to worry about the stress of raising a disabled child and how it affects your relationship with your SO and your family. I've seen the strain it puts on the parents especially. It just simply isn't an easy issue at all.
Thanks for the effort but I think I'm just going to bow out of any actual discussion from this point forward. Not really a good environment or audience to have a serious moral dilemma. Gonna go back to channeling my inner magick mage.