No, Boltster is right for pointing out that you're being unrealistically petty, and I think that
you, among the both of you, are needing of more help. However, as someone clocking consistently ≥ 50 hours a week at my job, with religious, relationship, social obligations and active participation in running and developing forum games, it all boils down to time management. You choose what you have time for, mostly. You chose to have children and thus limited yourself in that regard, and your worldview has developed such that you, whether you choose to consciously consider it so, view your children more as an obligation than a blessing when the rubber hit the road in this thread, and then to make it impersonal to use your children to try and manipulate us as if they were tools. You're in for a surprise when they grow up and are able to recognize and internalize that disassociation.
Furthermore, if your choices resulted in you limiting your time so that you admit that there are other things worth considering, why would you assume that you can instill that viewpoint in a forum with an average age of 13–17? Why should they believe, due to the light in which you shed it, believe that you didn't end up as just another cynic embittered by your own mistakes?