forget you both. It was all unneeded and stupid to do.
@otis: I am trying to say that the situation put fourth and the context to it even if accidental made it sound tribal.
Conceptual theory- a relationship between the speaker, the speech, and the listener.
I am the speaker, my speech wasn't intended(by me) to be tribal, since you interpreted it to be tribal you made an error and are being tribal. I have control over the intended meaning of my speech, your interpretation doesn't dictate what I meant.