...dammit...

[Ladios]

If you don't care about anything to do with personal lives just stop reading now. I will try to keep this short.

So me and Kairi (my gf, read the ladios's girl drama topics) are doing pretty well, but one thing that is starting to bug me is how much she worries about everything, and if I even slightly raise my voice due to, say, annoying frat boys yelling random stuff at me and me not wanting to be standing at that exact spot so they cant harrass me, she takes it as an offence to her and kinda retreats into this emo "pity me" even when it is not directed at her. Its annoying because if I even begin so feel any anger around her, she basically interperates it as being about her and gets all depressed which pisses me off further because I just made her sad for no reason. So yeah...
Now if this annoyance wasn't stressed enough, rently I've become friends with this cute cheerleader girl that actually is rather cool and not all blonde valleygirl ditzy like. She recently confessed that she has a crush on me and I do kinda like her back but still like Kairi, so its very annoying.

I am not asking for advice, I am just complaining.

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[Hellriot]

From what you're saying, it seems that Kairi is one of the chicks that really want attention. If you like to give her a lot of attention, then stay with her. If not, leave her. It'll only screw with you and piss you off.

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GURL DRAMA HAZ RETURNED!

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[TapeDeck]

Have you talked to her about it?

[Netwars4]

I am not asking for advice, I am just complaining.

*so tempting to give advice*
but i wont.
i would say that i feel your pain about this, but i havnt had cheerleaders like me yet.
nor is my girl sensitive on that level.

[Ladios]

Have you talked to her about it?

Somewhat and she says she understands how thats frusturating, and says she will try to not take my anger personally so much anymore. So at least shes trying. Thats all I can really ask for.

[TapeDeck]

Well if it's not working, then end it nno point in making it last afew more months and have her get more attached and then have the inevitable happen anyway.

[Ladios]

The "inevitable" is going to happen no matter what. I want to at least be happy with her as long as I can first. I am not saying I want to break up with her just because of this thing. I am just saying that it bugs the stuff outta me. :P

*so tempting to give advice*

Yes?

[Hellriot]

Well dude, if this is making you frustrated, pretty soon you're going to end up to the point where you pretend that you want the relationship to keep going. Then after you break up with her, you're going to be in a heap of stuff, emotionally.

[Ladios]

Its a tad more deep than that, but thanks for trying to help.

[Netwars4]

Well seeing as I'm only 15 and I'm assuming that you're in college; you probably have been told this countless times so I'll be another broken record for you.
Talk to her about it and explain to her whats happening; all of it.

[BlueGeorge]

My opinion is that you shouldn't leave her over one little thing like this. People can't be perfect. My suggestion is to help her stop doing the annoying thing. Point out when she's doing it if you're comfortable with that, and be her friend.

/weirdemotionalthingisover

Wel, I don't know HOW annoying it is, so I can't really say, but tat is my advice.

/nowitsover

[Hellriot]

Oh, sorry I forgot to add this. Even though she says shes going to try to stop, doesn't mean she will. Since she already took it personally before, that means it comes naturally to her. Next time you get mad, she would do the same thing and not even realize it. Not unless you would give her a heads up when she did it.