go to The Titaniums portal remake server...there's a few good, fun admins there usually and everyone's pretty..."loose"... only time you would be banned or kicked is if you spam, dm when someone[everyone] is building stuff, or when you keep killing the host, me[ima admin there and i hate to die >:D]
Besides, The Titanium dont like to have a ban list so if anyone gets banned not by him, he un-bans them...
