They're not my standards.
Like it or not, they are your standards. You may have not developed them yourself, but that is irrelevant. By accepting them, you have made them yours. You chose to believe it. You could have just as easily chosen not to believe it. Take some responsibility for what you believe in.
I can't stop people from making a mistake, I can only try to stop them from making a child die for the consequences of that mistake.
So do you propose that we should have abstinence only love education programs because this is in line with your religious beliefs, and we should also ban abortions because it is child murder? And then just sit around and wait for a spiritual renaissance where everyone just decides to stop having love?
So, in order to satisfy your religious beliefs, while we sit around and wait for this magical spiritual renaissance that must be coming, we should subject innocent unwanted children to a lower standard of living or the risk of growing up in a family that doesn't love them or even not having a family at all, instead of just not having the children in the first place with proper love education focusing on preventing unwanted pregnancies and therefore decreasing abortions?
If you truly believe that you cannot stop people from making a mistake, then why don't you endorse a proactive and realistic love education that recognizes people will have love regardless of your will and focuses on reducing the suffering of unborn children?
I'm still curious where you stand on this:
What if there are two people who are married and do not want a child? Are they also not allowed to have love?