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Okay I've heard the stuff about the whole "yay i make club" (referring to tribal empire) then out of nowhere, <NUKE INCOMING> sorta thing. whatever. I think people just need to choose better civilizations in those servers. What do you guys think? oh and I have a Mini empires server up sometimes.
First of all I never really like starting out tribal so I usually try for medieval or futuristic (according to the theme). If it is all, I believe medieval + magic is the perfect combatant for modern/futuristic. But godmodding is looked down upon in mini empires and is usually bannable so nukes out of nowhere won't happen on a well moderated server.