Oi! my friend needs help with relationship stuff

[T3HZ3N0N]

So, recently a friend of mine has got himself into a very odd situation between him and the girl he likes, making him extremely confused.

my friend cant very well judge his crush's personality, as she has shown him little to no emotion.

so stuff happened about a month ago resulting in the girl telling my friend that she had depression, and all her
friends left her, my friend, being a giant white knight, tried to help her, suggesting new friends, etc. this resulted in him getting
blocked on facebook by her and him being sorta mad at her.

that all happened about a week ago

and now my friend has a very "i love that bitch" mindset about her, she's denying help, he's turning a bit hostile.

she doesn't talk to anyone in all the classes he has with her

so my friend came up with two different personalities for the girl:

1. she really is depressed, doesn't have any friends anymore, she's denying help, she really isnt friends with anyone in the classes

OR

2. she is just a bitch, trolling my friend to oblivion, toying with the "good guy", which will eventually drive my friend insane, she doesnt
talk to other children because she is "too good for them".

(mind you this was originally intented for 4chan but i decided to put it on 131chan instead)


so, forums, you get decide which personality my friend should take into account and act accordingly to!

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[Ethan]

"My friend"
Always means you. :P

[Dezcaban]

"My friend"
Always means you. :P

^
don't have to hide it bru

#2 sounds far fetched. Wait it out a bit.

[BubbaGum]

"My friend"
Always means you. :P

[fred da kiko]

in the pooper it goes.

[Katadeus]

Actually he shouldn't make any more moves towards her, he's already intruded too much.

[Swat 3]

Tell him to get some smexy abs.

[Dezcaban]

obtain leviathan neck muscles WORKS EVERY TIME

(it doesn't)

[DrenDran]

yeah you dont gotta "my friend" on 4chan lol

[Mysteroo]

my friend, being a giant white knight, tried to help her

I can be completely wrong about this, but it sounds like he was helping her because she was his girlfriend and wanted her to like him more. He wanted to look like the "giant white knight." I think that's the problem, instead of genuinely wanting to help just to be a good friend, he wanted to up his rep.
     What usually helps solve these issues is to apologize in case you did something wrong (and to not do so with a sarcastic tone- even if you are completely innocent) and try to make things right. A lot of the time if I apologize to someone angry at me for no good reason, it usually helps them to calm down, and then they see that I wasn't the one doing anything wrong and they later apologize to me as well.

But also- this is why I'm waiting until college to have any sort of serious relationship. Most of the time High school (and younger) relationships just end up in drama, hurt feelings, and wasted time.

[T3HZ3N0N]

I can be completely wrong about this, but it sounds like he was helping her because she was his girlfriend and wanted her to like him more. He wanted to look like the "giant white knight." I think that's the problem, instead of genuinely wanting to help just to be a good friend, he wanted to up his rep.
     What usually helps solve these issues is to apologize in case you did something wrong (and to not do so with a sarcastic tone- even if you are completely innocent) and try to make things right. A lot of the time if I apologize to someone angry at me for no good reason, it usually helps them to calm down, and then they see that I wasn't the one doing anything wrong and they later apologize to me as well.

But also- this is why I'm waiting until college to have any sort of serious relationship. Most of the time High school (and younger) relationships just end up in drama, hurt feelings, and wasted time.

but

he wasnt dating her