My mom in a nutshell AKA Why i have emotional problems now

[Harm94]

Tell a teacher or something.

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[Rockinboy2000]

examples of abuse please, dont just claim abuse because you were spanked for drawing on a wall

Well,
Brainwashing me into saying i want to live with mom when child protective services came
Threats if i didn't say i want to live with her (Not spanking this time, seriously)
I cant remember anything else seriously, but ill try talking about it with my father and respond to you later

[Elecro]

call the Self Delete hotline and say that you can't stand your abusive mother anymore, they should ask for your location and send child services to your house. since you are older, you have more resistance to brainwashing.

[Nickelob Ultra]

Brainwashing me into saying i want to live with mom when child protective services came
Threats if i didn't say i want to live with her (Not spanking this time, seriously)

This is actually a problem and you need to tell your father and make sure child services are aware.

[Sentry]

It actually is your decision on who you wanna live with.
Legally if you tell your dad that you wanna live with him then
your allowed to live with him if he wants you to live with him.
Your mom is just saying that is her decision because she doesn't
want you to leave her. Find a way for you to live with your dad instead.
Google it or something. I read somewhere that some kid just called 911
and told them that there parents divorced and his mom is making him
live with her even though again it isn't her decision, and he wants to
live with his dad. I wouldn't suggest doing it because I don't know
if they would help you or not. That and you might get in trouble for it.

[Kisamber]

Do your best with your mom.
Child servieces isn't the way to go. Been there done that all it does is usually put you in worse situations.
Be strong maybe trust if your really 14 think of it as you survive a lot of your life up till this point. Just when your mom says and do stuff realize you may never change her or she may never change. Doing so will open your path and lead you to success.
Currently I have lived in a group home (a place were teenagers get sent usually) and it wasn't that helpful. Often finding myself more stressed then before. So do your best and try and stay at home.

[Kisamber]

High ideas ^ truuuust do your best.
And that's only if you can't live with your dad.