oh forget
I know someone who had a cat named Oliver for several years that was hit by a car less than three weeks ago.
That's horrible. I suppose... as with my Oliver, I wish something could have been done to prevent it... I'm not good with this, but I wish them well and... It's sad these things just happen, out of our control.
Wow thats the exact same situation with my dog except he didn't die he just couldn't live in my apartment with me so he had to stay with my parents. He would follow me around everywhere all day and he was always sleeping under my chair with his head on the leg and it took like 3-4 months before I stopped checking under before moving so I wouldn't run him over.
That reminds me, sometimes Oliver would go directly under the chair instead of by my feet, and I'd nudge him with my hand like "Oliver, come on, that's not safe." I think I knocked him a few times, nothing bad but sometimes he was so irrational. Just liked staying by me sometimes.
sorry to be an starfish, but i always have to point out these kinds of topics...
stop pleading for sympathy.
especially because you are having 'updates' of you just saying how you miss him and stating some sad story how you are missing him with your foot or something just shows you are even pleading more.
sorry for your loss but seriously,
stop.
I'm just unsettled about how disconnected I am from the event, so I pick out whatever I do notice and leave it in words here just in case. I'm not sure if it will hit me, but if it does, it'd be good to have some explanation. I'm always about documentation, background, etc, so leaving these posts is helpful.