IT KEEPS HAPPENING
You're not in the friendzone if you're not even friends after the fact.Actually I can't tell if you're saying that anyone who claims to be in the friendzone has had an experience similar to this or if you're calling out those who do think that's what "friendzone" is.
girls wont suddenly like you just because they find out you are into them.every girl decides in about 20 seconds the first time she meets any guy if she would ever forget him. and it never changes from that decision.