Author Topic: Help me with my bitch mom  (Read 544 times)

Tl;dr- my mom is a loving bitch. As I understand she gave birth to me, her and her husband are just completely illogical starfishs to me, all the time. Im going to give you the complete, redact-free story of what happened.
So, I was in the A&P, forced to shop because forget my privileges, and everything goes well until my 12-year old brother starts to be a richard to me, first by saying I can't be with dad, it was only him and dad (and getting dad to ACTUALLY FORCE ME TO LEAVE FOR NO REASON), then getting me in trouble for no reason whatsoever, and when no issue was existent. That turned out to be the main issue. So, we go to check-out, and im clearly bagging, yet my brother pushes me to the side and somehow mind controls my parents a second time to tell me to leave, but this wasn't obvious until a few seconds in. Alright, I did. easy. Then, he stops bagging so I decide to, and as I place the bag in the cart, my brother knocks it to the side and says something similar to "Lance, what the forget?!" and my mom screams like she always does as a loving defense mechanism, and we both get in trouble.
So, as were driving home, I try repeatedly to tell her what happened, yet everytime I do, she becomes an ignorant starfish and says "I don't care". So I just stop. But, later on, my brother keeps talking after my mom tells us to shut up, and we both get in trouble for not shutting up, clearly when he was the only one talking. So now I can't use my computer, so I'm using my phone because she's just that dumb.
Im loving tired of my family, from the ridiculous sister you know about, to this now. What the hell do I do? I'm moving out ASAP, but what can I do now?
« Last Edit: April 18, 2015, 06:52:17 PM by -Setro- »

Solution: Calmly try to talk to your parents about it. Step through things from the beginning. Hear both sides of the story. Don't lose your stuff like this. If they continually refuse to talk about it talk to a councilor at school about the problem.

Trust me, you're not going to be able to move out for a long while and if you do move out early you're going to wish you hadn't.

Lol you are going to move out because of this

Seems like a whole family of crazies IDK why you are acting like you are completely normal in a house of freaks.

So, as were driving home, I try repeatedly to tell her what happened, yet everytime I do, she becomes an ignorant starfish and says "I don't care".
did you try to talk to her calmly and nicely? Because usually my mom wouldn't do something ignorant like this unless I was being an starfish

Solution: Calmly try to talk to your parents about it. Step through things from the beginning. Hear both sides of the story. Don't lose your stuff like this. If they continually refuse to talk about it talk to a councilor at school about the problem.

Trust me, you're not going to be able to move out for a long while and if you do move out early you're going to wish you hadn't.
did you try to talk to her calmly and nicely? Because usually my mom wouldn't do something ignorant like this unless I was being an starfish
Multiple times, yes, and she was still ignorant.

Multiple times, yes, and she was still ignorant.
Give it time (maybe a day) and try again. calmly. I cannot emphasize that enough.

Sounds like your mum is really stressed. And it's not too surprising given the story you've told us regarding your sister.
Your 12 year old brother just isn't aware of that stress.

I don't think from the sounds of it that your mum is picking on you, but rather, it's just easier to snap at both of you regardless of who is doing what.

Just try and be good for her. Give her a hug.

Sounds like your mum is really stressed. And it's not too surprising given the story you've told us regarding your sister.
Your 12 year old brother just isn't aware of that stress.

I don't think from the sounds of it that your mum is picking on you, but rather, it's just easier to snap at both of you regardless of who is doing what.

Just try and be good for her. Give her a hug.
Alright, I guess.

Issue resolved guys, she changed her mind.
She's a cool person at times, just really annoying at others.