Author Topic: I don't know what to do about my social situation, atm  (Read 1672 times)

Is your school Soviet Russia

Why would I want to tell them? Not to come off as rude, but I just don't want to have them hate me the rest of my life. And I'm worried that telling them that a bad reaction like that is bigoted and handicapped would make them think I'm stupid or something.
are your parents super religious? if not, they shouldn't hate you for who you are. if so, they still shouldn't hate you for who you are. if you don't want to come out then fine but i definitely encourage you to be honest with you parents no matter how bigoted and stupid they may be. if they don't like it, that's their problem and not yours.
don't apologize for being gay. do the Thing and go for Win
« Last Edit: November 24, 2015, 11:42:12 PM by fireking »

You might want to eventually tell your parents you're gay.
If they rage at you (more or less) tell them that acting that way is bigoted and handicapped
Don't get me wrong SetGaming, but I honestly empathize with your situation for where you are. Let me put this into an simple brown townogy. As much as I completely agree with Red Spy and everyone else with this idea along the lines, I feel that at your age, it would be as if you're adding fuel to an uncontrollable fire to begin with. My take is that, and i'm not claiming to know anything about your parents, but they may not know how to handle that, being likely that they grew up in what the previous generation believed in. Again, i'm not claiming to know anything about your parents or being some kind of expert, but from what I understand, the older parents of this generation generally seem to "love" their children; which seems geared toward possession of their children, rather than appreciation, if that makes sense. I'm not saying what they think is wrong however, it's not the only thing that's right as well. Generally speaking about parents with this mindset at this point, if I can describe it, it's as if they only want for what the parent wants them to gain, rather than the kids to gain anything for themselves at the moment. This is obvious because they see that school is the most important thing. With that being said, and this can tie in to the matter of confidence as well, but do you have any talents that you really like, or have anything that you feel it may be worth the time looking into? If not, I suggest and encourage you take the time to really and truly, but simply just think to yourself about seeing the person you want to be; for yourself, before going to bed each night. Later in life, you certainly will have more control about what you want to develop, but you can start early and just think about what it is to yourself. I hope any of this helps you out.
« Last Edit: November 25, 2015, 01:55:42 AM by knuckles31 »

"Rewlcome to China school where if one person forgets up, evwybody suffas."
Sound like your school is a concentration camp to beat the smart out of you. What I would do, is protest and riot. Then the school might be less harsh and less students get beat or kill themselves.
Hey, it's okay to be gay, because the blockland community has one rule: Once you join, you are turned into a major autistic friend.
So OP, try to make the school realize what they are doing is wrong and kinda against human rights.
Ps. The Blf will always support you in any way we can, even if its an overused solution.
Pls. I went to a private section of a public school where "special" children were. The bad kids were put in a small insane asylum room and locked there. The good kids, well, they got rewarded. But if they messed up, they would be scolded to the max. I am glad that I got out of there, and I got in there because I had ADHD but they fixed that real good.
« Last Edit: November 25, 2015, 01:29:37 AM by Freedom Bringer »



If your parents react negatively toward you being gay, tell them it could be worse

could be drugs instead