Posts don't exist in a vacuum. There's a history of the user's posts, a context of the post, and the image the user has built for themselves. Society in general functions the same way, it's not a level playing field and never will be. E.g., Attractive blokes can often get away with saying overtly loveual things to strangers and 'have game', and unattractive blokes do the same and are creeps. It's not unique to this forum, you should start to accept it.
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