Erm, right.
Take a few deep breaths and try to explain to us exactally what you are trying to do, and what is happening.
What I am currently assuming is that you are seeing one of your friends servers as dead?
..Its kinda what i just said.
Tried to play a decent server. Lagged out. Did this twice. DC'd. Went on IRC, asked what the hell was going on, went off BL and back on, Still was dead, Did it again, Dead, Again, Dead, and again, Dead. Even though he said the server was up and passworded as one of his friends was in there. I wasn't banned from it.
The point is, His server is like..Permanately Dead for me.
Now where the hell am I supposed to find a fun RP? D:<
