I don't see your point about Flubb coming back and ruining it.
As he said, it was a camping server.
As you said, to camp, you need to roleplay.
However, you don't need to Roleplay a ghost in the camping. Yeah, you can fit whatever you want into a roleplay, but if he doesn't want your roleplay to lead off to being based off of a ghost, then he can tell you to stop.
If you're not roleplaying in the way that he wants, he has the rights to tell you to stop, and correct you on how he wants the server to play.
You wouldn't get annoyed if you were on a server that was hosting a DM, and everyone just kept sniping, despite the fact that the host wants you to rather focus less on sniping and more on chargin in, and then the host tells you to stop sniping.
Simply put, it's his server, he can do what he likes, but he wasn't being dictatotorial. He just wanted you guys to play it a certain way. And, if you would rather have played a Camping roleplay with ghosts, or however you wanted, you could easily start a new server.
I understand that not everyone can host, even with V14, but I have no doubt that atleast 1 person on that server, other than the host, is able to host a server.
Even if there isn't a person, I'm sure you all have friends on Blockland who could be willing to host for you.
hum... ok im now on flubb's side!
its true, its his server and he can do everything he want, make the rules he want...
