After reading this whole topic, I now wonder. Has anybody ever bothered to ignore people like this? It's like someone pulls stuff like this, and more than half the community is drawn to it, and begins to rant about it. Why not ignore it, an move on with your life?
It's honestly like this.
"Oh my god! I'm standing in a room full of gay men! I hate being here, but I'm going to stay anyways!"