i'm not saying that, but when you're going for "realistic," the smallest discrepancies can really throw off the whole drawing
There are lots of "descrepencies" and small odd proportions to human bodies. It's very rare to find people with very even and "characteristically correct" proportions for their gender. Some women can have thicker necks, broader shoulders, thinner hips, and any such thing that may be associated with the opposite love. That doesn't make it wrong. It's what makes us human and real.