i guess you could call me spoiled with your logic. i travel with my parents to brazil and italy to see my grandparents every two years. yet, there is a difference between being lucky and being spoiled. spoiled is when the child gets everything they want via temper tantrums. ie: spoiled = brat. a spoiled child doesn't know the value of money, i on the other hand, do. spoiled children are different from children who have generous parents. giving a child too little can be as bad as giving them too much.