I'm sure you'd like to believe you are such a benevolent person.
Regardless, you know how it works here. You enter someone's server, you automatically consign to his rules. If he want to ban you, he has every right to. You get what you ask for when you call him a friend and then expect nothing to come of it. The fact that you complain about it shows how special you seem to think you are...basically the whole "Everyone else is wrong except me" mentality.
Now please stop acting like you're a victim. Tez isn't doing anything bad, you're just hopping on the bandwagon.