Sorry, but those are in related topics. You don't have to visit those topics.
The topics, and his posts have nothing to do with ponies at all.
Does this mean I can get 100 examples for Tom from Pony topics?
Correct, I don't have to visit the topic which is currently attacking a group that I am a part of.
That's like saying when someone is talking behind your back, because you didn't hear it, it didn't happen.
The difference with the pony topic is that it's not constantly insulting people for not liking ponies.
You don't have to visit this topic because it doesn't affect you, where as Tony was blatantly insulting the bronies in his topic, thus affecting us.
