the problem with some guys is. they get a date because they are super sweet guys. then after the 3rd, 4th, 5th date they are still those same sickening boring ass kissing guys.
even if they become serious. the guy is some wallet opening, kick-around chode.
girls do not find things they dont respect lovey.
there is a time and place to be nice, and its not always.
you pull a chair out and hold a door open so the girl can go first, that stuff can become very embarrassing for her after awhile.