1. When was I asking for attention?
When you outwardly admitted you were autistic.
2. Do I use "LOZL THAT GUY IS STUPID SO HE'S BIPOLAR" as insult constantly? No.
Except that being bipolar has nothing to do with mental integrity and overall intelligence.
Do you use "he's stupid, he's an autist" as insult constantly? Yes.
Define 'constantly'. I said he was autistic, and said it made a lot of sense when you said you were autistic. It seems to me like you're blowing this all out of proportion because you see autism as some sort of shield to protect you from insults and ridicules.
So before saying any stupid bullstuff like I have no idea what autism is, or that I have no right to use it as an insult, at least think about what you're saying before you go off and make yourself look like an idiot. Right now your best defense is as thin as paper.
And lastly, autism comes in different forms. There is no certain type of autism, either. You sound like a perfectly fine person who could handle a job and could most certainly provide for yourself and a family, whereas the op is a complete blithering starfish who actually does sound very autistic.