No offense man, but just stop caring about what the community has to say to you. Stop trying to gain their acceptance, and their respect. Their respect doesn't matter at all. Their acceptance doesn't matter either. I'm not trying to be mean or offensive to you, but in the thread, I noticed you were really reactive to what people said about you. You need to ignore them and move on, be your own person.
As I said earlier, I am not trying to hurt you man. I'm just trying to help